Tips for Change "Happy as You Want to Be!"

Hi webbers!

I hope your Monday went well. I got to visit a clients home today and woah. All I can say is phenomenal. The furniture was custom, the home was beautiful custom wood and all the creature comforts a anyone would like. I am blessed to have such people in my life willing to share their treasure with me. We had a long ride and lots to discuss. This in turn made me think of this topic for discussion. To be as happy as you want to be. What do you chose? Read below and share your thoughts.

Happy as You Want to Be

Almost everyone has heard the hit single 'Don't Worry, Be Happy' by Bobby McFerrin. The song has a very catchy way of conveying its message of being happy to everyone. Bobby Mcferiin's simple message surely made a lot of people happy by telling them not to worry.

Living a happy, resilient and optimistic life is wonderful, and is also good for your health. Being happy actually protects you from the stresses of life. Stress is linked to top causes of death such as heart disease, cancer and stroke.

One of the better things ever said is - 'The only thing in life that will always remain the same is change', and in our life we have the power to make the necessary changes if we want to. Even if we find ourselves in an unbearable situation we can always find solace in the knowledge that it too would change.

Social networks or relationships are essential to happiness. People are different, accept people for who or what they are, avoid clashes, constant arguments, and let go of all kinds of resentments. If arguments seem unavoidable still try and make an effort to understand the situation and you might just get along well with everyone

Happiness is actually found in everyone, increasing it is a way to make a life more wonderful and also more healthy.

To be happy is relatively easy, just decide to be a happy person. Abraham Lincoln observed that most people for most of the time can choose how happy or stressed, how relaxed or troubled, how bright or dull their outlook to be. The choice is simple really, choose to be happy.

There are several ways by which you can do this.
 
Being grateful is a great attitude.  We have so much to be thankful for. Thank the taxi driver for bringing you home safely, thank the cook for a wonderful dinner and thank the guy who cleans your windows. Also thank the mailman for bringing you your mails, thank the policeman for making your place safe and thank God for being alive.

News is stressful. Get less of it. Some people just can't start their day without their daily dose of news. Try and think about it, 99% of the news we hear or read is bad news. Starting the day with bad news does not seem to be a sensible thing to do.

A religious connection is also recommended. Being part of a religious group with its singing, sacraments, chanting, prayers and meditations foster inner peace.

Manage your time. Time is invaluable and too important to waste. Time management can be viewed  as a list of rules that involves scheduling, setting goals, planning, creating lists of things to do and prioritizing. These are the core basics of time management that should be understood to develop an efficient personal time management skill. These basic skills can be fine tuned further to include the finer points of each skill that can give you that extra reserve to make the results you desire.

Laugh and laugh heartily everyday.  Heard a good joke? Tell your friends or family about it. As they also say -'Laughter is the best medicine'.
 
Express your feelings, affections, friendship and passion to people around you. They will most likely reciprocate your actions. Try not to keep pent up anger of frustrations, this is bad for your health. Instead find ways of expressing them in a way that will not cause more injury or hurt to anyone.
 
Working hard brings tremendous personal satisfaction. It gives a feeling of being competent in finishing our tasks. Accomplishments are necessary for all of us, they give us a sense of value. Work on things that you feel worthy of your time.

Learning is a joyful exercise. Try and learn something new everyday.  Learning also makes us expand and broaden our horizons. And could also give us more opportunities in the future.

Run, jog, walk and do other things that your body was made for. Feel alive.

Avoid exposure to negative elements like loud noises, toxins and hazardous places.

These are the few simple things you can do everyday to be happy.

And always remember the quote from Abraham Lincoln, he says that, "Most people are about as happy as they make up their minds to be."

If there is a time other than that listed please send me an email and I will see where I can accommodate you.

I am here 2-help-u with your success. I want to be your coach! After all it is your life, live it by your design.

Life, Light & Truth

Tim Thomas, CTACC
Life / Success Coach
A Life by Design Company
Tel: 603-682-4980
info@aionnh.com
www.2-help-u.com

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Tips For Change " Weaknesses Explored in the Hidden Self"

Hi Webbers,

What a wonderful ride. I have finally been able to get down to it. I have been hammering away at stuff that needs to be done around the new home. I am close to being finished with a few more projects. Pics to come soon. I have been working on our home automation system. Those that know me would agree I love a good challenge and I am about as gadget geeky as they come.

My background is in system integration. I started in the smart home business. I always told myself one day I would have my own and I am getting there. With that being said I have an extra part it is the brains to the whole thing. It is a Lutron Caseta Smart Bridge Pro.

Would you like your very own Caseta? Retail is about $159.00. I am going to give this bad boy away all you have to do is send me your name and address with Caseta in the subject line. This is not a contest. I have only one and I want to give it to someone who will use it and reads my blog. A friend helping a friend.

Now can you believe this New England Weather. What a nice little storm we received on Monday.
Today will be beautiful.

If you remember we explored the hidden self some weeks ago. Today we expand on this topic have you explored your hidden self  ? I do hope you enjoy this weeks Tips For Change. I look forward to hearing from everyone soon.

"Weaknesses Explored in the Hidden Self"

When we become weak, it propitiates organisms that pander redundant habits that we possess, which reduces the growth and enhancement procedures. In order to reconcile with good habits we must develop willpower and self-discipline, since the two tools work in harmony to assist us with healing the hidden self.

Self-discipline and willpower can assist us with determining the process of development and enrichment of self. Developing self-discipline with willpower endows one’s strength and our willpower to work through difficulties easier. Willpower and self-discipline will bestow one to persevere in an effort to shun direct contentment and happiness. By shunning, we can acquire superior strength of mind and find real happiness and contentment from our efforts.

By inculcating willpower and self-discipline, we can learn to reject the vices that hinder self-development progression. In unison, by inculcating these virtues it will guarantee the development of the self.

Developing enhanced consciousness of mind can help one discover and come to realization of the hidden self. Inculcating willpower and self-discipline, one will find it easier to undergo changes. Once you accept change, it assists you with developing refreshed habits, which oppose lethargic attitudes. These are the attitudes we must sacrifice, abandon to discover the hidden self.

In view of these facts, we must move to meditate daily. Meditation is a process that assists us with reforming and transforming the mind. Yoga practices can prove beneficial and assist you with meditating. Naturopathy therapy and long walks can also benefit you and assist you with self-development. You will also need a balanced diet suitable for your body’s needs.

Meditation is your guide to relaxing the mind and the soul, or body. Meditating often will help you with regaining your serenity and tranquility of the soul and mind. Meditation plays a chief role in developing one’s independence. Independent minds often manage negative or distressing thoughts easier.

Mediation also assists one with restoring peace of mind. Of course, a peaceful mind often finds

happiness. Meditation can help one with soothing the mind and the body. In fact, meditative practices have proven to be one of the top therapeutic aids that effectively give you results.

Meditation can assist with restoring the emotional balance and propitiates the body so that it works in harmonization with the mind, to make sure it is properly working in harmony with development and growth of the self.

Yoga as mentioned can assist you with meditation. Yoga can help curb downbeat energies and pessimistic attitudes. Yoga practices have proven to promote growth and self-development by assisting with mental transformation. Yoga can relieve organisms that emerge some disorders, including digestive disorders; insomnia, sleeps difficulties, obesity, and can act as a pain management. Yoga also assists with healing conditions of the heart, as well as other complications one may deal with.

Incorporating practical yoga practices into your self-development scheme can lead you to talk self through vague logics that inhabit your competence by promoting rationale.

Impediments could be effortlessly overcome through self-talk. Self-talk will help one convert his or her thoughts to sensible for self-realization. One can achieve this level of mental strengths through the process of filtration. During this process, negative thoughts are filtered. In the course of personalization, it prevents an entity from pushing culpability on himself for all the cynical deeds.

In order to work through self-development effectively, one must develop an optimistic attitude. The entity must cultivate freewill. Free will is exclusively dependent on the will of an entity. Freewill can treads an entity to an untrue path that may lead him to endure severe consequences. On the other hand, his will can encourage him to accept the confirmatory attitude that may direct on to his growth and intensification in life.

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I am here 2-help-u with your success. I want to be your coach! After all it is your life, live it by your design.

THANK YOU!

Tim Thomas
Life / Success Coach
A Life by Design Company
Tel: 603-682-4980
info@aionnh.com
www.2-help-u.com

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